Had to take my puppy I got for Christmas to the Animal Defense League a few days ago. It was very sad. I explained to my daughter that this was way too much of a responsibility for me. A dog is a 12-15 year commitment and I had no choice but to take her to Animal Defense.
Tullia, the puppy, was very cute and although I tried not to get too attached, I did. Just having her one day did it, although she peed and pooped everywhere except the yard.
Hopefully, my daughter learned a lesson on this. Hopefully I was assertive enough. I don't think it was a mean gift, just misguided. It put a major responsibility on me that she didn't consider. I explained to her that adopting pets can't be taken lightly. It's a major commitment. She may have just wanted me not to be alone. I don't know. She assumed a lot by giving me this puppy which bothers me to this day.
I think Tullia will be adopted without a problem.. The people at the Animal Defense League said she was in good health and there shouldn't be a problem. I wound up paying $40 for spaying/neutering and a medical checkup. What a sad, hurtful Christmas gift.
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